Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Things To Write In A Wedding Day Card How Long Do You Have To Send Thank You Notes Out After A Wedding? Can I Write A Similar Message In Them All?

How long do you have to send thank you notes out after a wedding? Can I write a similar message in them all? - things to write in a wedding day card

We had a great marriage. My husband works 6 days a week, was for my thank you notes responcibility! I do not know them all personally ... Is it correct to write the same, for all? If not, how long should I send? Any advice would help!

24 comments:

betternh... said...

Socially, it is 6 months. Yes, you can write similar messages ... Who know? I think the man should write his side of the family and their own. (This is the gift donors really want to know anyway, right?) The only thing I say is not to write messages that look like real people who use them over any other (mother and daughter, etc.)

betternh... said...

Socially, it is 6 months. Yes, you can write similar messages ... Who know? I think the man should write his side of the family and their own. (This is the gift donors really want to know anyway, right?) The only thing I say is not to write messages that look like real people who use them over any other (mother and daughter, etc.)

fnd40 said...

Two weeks is standard, not exceeding one month with. The note should be a reference to the administration staff has been given. They should not all be equal.

Happy Wife said...

I'm pretty anal about thank you notes, so I some of us on our honeymoon and ended soon after. I hear you can have up to six months.

My husband has a cousin who is never sent, and it is so dreadful it. I think it would be better to send even two years later than never!

Also, I am sure that it is correct to say similar things. It would be very hard not to.

I share it to make sure I thanked each pair per person in our time and for the gift. It was a gift of money or a gift card, told them what I was accustomed to.

Hope this helps

geminila... said...

The label wants me to thank you notes should be sent within 30 days. What is the message, I think it is absolutely possible to carry similar messages on them. Remember that each person will be paid your account, and you have nothing to compare. However, they must hand and personalized.

Congratulations on your marriage! :-)

Lydia said...

Do it as soon as possible! Yes, you will find the same kind of writing in most maps.

Lydia said...

Do it as soon as possible! Yes, you will find the same kind of writing in most maps.

CBT Princess said...

I've heard 6 months - but that seems really hard. I would say 6 weeks. I think the same applies as long as you mention the donor and the donation well.

kk said...

Form small groups (approximately 5 cards per group) ~ People who know who talk out of town and not to other people, parents, etc.

Of course, people will come next, you should thank you notes that are more personal.

Say for the rest of them at about 5 different ways, thank you, then send each person in each group with a "Thank You".

I do not know if it's an "accepted" the golden rule, but if you did it, I feel much better! Remember, inch by inch is a cinch, yard by yard is hard! Do five times a night, and it is short!

kill_yr_... said...

It may contain letters, but very similar. Three words suffice. The first sentence does not contain the words "thank you" comes next. Write them on blank cards. You can simply or type of images but the images must be an adult - a serious and elegant - rather than cute or funny.

Write something like:

Livingston Dear Diane,

(1) Virg and I (happy, very happy, blessed, tickled, delighted, overjoyed, overwhelmed)
of / with
the (charming, beautiful, exciting, charming, generous, attentive, divirting exquisite holiday)
(Spoon, ladle, make sure, condominiums, photo frames, video games).
(2) is both the beauty (of our house has the elegance of our rooms, the usefulness of the fireplace, our dining pleasure, the comfort of our bathroom) --
(Many guests have admired, complementary with us, yesterday welcomed the praise), he
and we are so proud (and happy, honest, happy)
to (identify yourself as the originator of the thought or mention, as its namer benefactor, has revealed that the person) behind such an original gift.
Virg to me closes thank you for the kindness of his (, thoughtfulness, generosity and)
, Hoping (bring to our house, for soon hear from you).

Love, Mary

No deadline carved in stone, but the sooner the better is a good rule. Stamps and notecards, and you still use today!

Rachel said...

I wrote my thank you cards in the week after our wedding (especially on his return from his honeymoon), and yes, I say the same on each card. The sooner they come the better.

Rachel said...

I wrote my thank you cards in the week after our wedding (especially on his return from his honeymoon), and yes, I say the same on each card. The sooner they come the better.

Gabby_Ga... said...

I was told a month. I have my husband, not his side of the family, because I still have no idea that half the population.

ilovewed... said...

Hello. Personally, I thought it was a long period (one year), but under control, any place, "said Week! Ouch! Do not worry. I think that is acceptable here in the U.S., up to 6 months after the wedding. In any case, please send it! I attended a few weddings where they have never received a thank you!

Please do not write them all the same. Once again I had a card that simply said "Thank you for the gift (pressure), and the bride and groom signed their names. It is not good etiquette!

You need a joint effort. Just because her husband works 6 days a week - and why. Each of you a bit of night - for example 8 or 10 pieces - that goes so fast. It is not necessary to send all at the same time () as an invitation, the only way messaging on the fly. "

Even if you are not, as you say, everyone knows personally, you can personalize it thank you. "Thanks for the donation of money. Tim and I did not put a deposit on our new house. Please inform us of our time. APPreciate your support ...." something like that. Of course, if you have a gift () no money, then the gift ...." Thank you for XXX - we love and have already claimed. "[I] - you get the point. No matter what you do not know. Want of course, adjust for the family and close friends even more!

Good luck!

RedSoxRo... said...

I think the 6 months! I'll take mine with me in terms of its ter a long flight to Jamaica! Try as I get a thank you card after 6 months of hate as a gift! Message itself may be to adjust if you have time!

dma said...

Within 30 days of receipt of the gift is to thank you notes. For those who are not familiar with the line "It was nice to meet you to ask at last. Hoping to see you in the future." Make sure that all handwritten notes and write the most, if not all, notes, leave a space for her husband, his name on the signature line next to sign your name.
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Letter to a friend or relative:
Dear Aunt Ricki:
She is beautiful and we love it !!!!! It's really nice of you to give John and me as a precious treasure of the family. Bedspread knitted grandmothers hand "is my most prized possession. We thank the two of hearts!
Love Always,
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If you sent money to:
Love Aunt Debbie
John and I thank you very much for the review that you sent for our wedding. We have saved money for a down payment on our first house and we have added your gift to our special account. It was so good to you. One day soon we will inviteOur House Warming!
Can not wait to see Jay and uncle.
Love,
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Write to someone who does not know:
Mrs. Smith:
She gave me the crystal cake pedestal, he left and I could hardly wait to tell you how beautiful she is. John and I think of you every time we use it. Thank you very much.
Best regards,
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When writing a thank you note for a gift, not about caring:
Dear Randy and Nicki:
Thanks for the gum ball machine. Be sure to forget to visit our first customers, so you do not your pennies! See you soon.
Best regards,

The Sexiest! said...

As soon as possible, but it's always better late than never.

Bailey T said...

I've heard they have to send one years, but I did not wait that long. I think my husband and I spent a weekend and forced us to reach them all at once. I do not want it again. If I ever do to, I would be a table where I was able to delete the gift from the list, my address book, stamps and bank notes of gratitude for all time. I just want to try, 5, and write a night or whenever I have time during the day. If you do 5 a day, and there were 100 pairs, but little more than a month.

I also try to write something about the gift in the note, even if it only: "Thank you for sharing our day with us and for your generous donation. We love the mud. It's so nice to you. It's personal and makes people feel that their efforts were considered.

Hope this helps.

H&GP W said...

In a month you can be in the same row. Do not forget to send it, only to close family members. You can talk!

Rose said...

It is normal to write about all the same, but I realized it was sent, and how useful it is. Short and sweet

Short is good, 3 sentences is fine.

neon_ said...

Take your time. Even if one or two months, write something to show that we truly appreciate your presence at the wedding.
Ask your husband to share that burden with you!
him responsible for the note of appreciation for their own families.

munky_bo... said...

Send the card exactly the same for all

Erica S said...

do our best to remove them before 6 weeks after his return from honeymoon. 6 months is the longest you should wait, if you all of the above can be more than that

You can send a messgae as they write, but change nonetheless. if someone could give us some money, he said something like, "Your generous donation will help us in our way of owning a home, and if we have a gift card that we try to select one or two questions, you can buy. if They gave us a gift, we told them at first use and / or where it is located in our home.

susie296... said...

You should try it as soon as possible. As for writing the same thing, if you know what to try the person who gave you, mention that on the map. I have only one question: Did you ever compare to thank someone known to you cards? Do not worry. And who does not know, but your husband, put them aside, and she had to do was her talent.

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